My Mazamet

Life at № 42 by E.M. Coutinho

Is Homophobia a Thing of the Past?

I was heartened yesterday when someone told me in the discussion on the previous post they believed Canada had, for the most part, eradicated homophobia from schools. This would certainly … Continue reading

April 28, 2024 · 38 Comments

Things to do with me and others that aren’t (the trans debate goes on!)

So, April is coming to an end. That means summer is around the corner, and that means SUMMER GIRLS! Or, Summer Ladies + 1, if one prefers. The house is … Continue reading

April 26, 2024 · 118 Comments

First Hurdle Jumped

  So, I finally got the nerve and did the written test. I did the test at the Post Office in the centre of town because I can walk there. … Continue reading

April 14, 2024 · 22 Comments

Driving, family, food and more

If you haven’t started watching the new Ripley with Andrew Scott, you must! It’s sublime. Dickie Greenleaf’s boat is smaller but incredibly similar to the one my father inherited from … Continue reading

April 4, 2024 · 20 Comments

The French Driving Code: hour 12/45

At the Auto-Ecole, today I completed the 12th of the 45 classroom hours. And now, I understand. Absolutely fascinating mental process. So, during the first six hours of classes it … Continue reading

February 17, 2024 · 33 Comments

The French Driving Code: Week Two

So, those of you of a certain age who (also!) have an American driver’s license probably remember the simplicity of the process. You study the little booklet which is between … Continue reading

February 9, 2024 · 28 Comments

Winter in Mazamet: Duolingo, Driving & Listening to Kris Kristofferson

So, there we are, I’m finally doing it. I joined an auto-ecole because my American driver’s license has been expired for a while and Mike very much wants me to … Continue reading

February 4, 2024 · 24 Comments

Feliz Navidad

Isn’t that fabulous? A corner of a room by one of my favourite Spanish designers, Amaro Sanchez Moya. I love the richness of the French shawl on the wall behind … Continue reading

December 25, 2023 · 18 Comments

Happy Holidays!

So here we are again, yet another Christmas. It does seem to happen a lot, doesn’t it? This is our 10th Christmas in France. What an extraordinary thought — and … Continue reading

December 18, 2023 · 16 Comments

In these sobering times – we must drink wine and carry on

Since my last post over one and a half million people have been displaced in the middle east, thousands have died, and in Ukraine two million people are about to … Continue reading

November 29, 2023 · 25 Comments

Ukrainian Borscht, The Lost Treasures of Egypt and Magic Children

And what a magical time it has been as a whole. So much has gone through my mind in the past few years — and this summer I feel as … Continue reading

October 2, 2023 · 35 Comments

Paradise Is Where You Make It

We make it in Mazamet. A little pause in proceedings. Family and friends have come and gone, now our nephew arrives with his family Wednesday. There’s a substantive post-cancer treatment … Continue reading

August 20, 2023 · 23 Comments

Fish are jumping and the cotton is high

Here we go, the countdown has begun! And so has the final stretch of putting the house together for guests. This is our 15th Summerversary with Summer Girls, meaning we … Continue reading

July 17, 2023 · 23 Comments

Days of Wine and Roses – and Riots

So that was terrible, wasn’t it? A perfectly pleasant month, not too hot and suddenly great drama. A police officer shoots a teen who refuses to stop a car he’s … Continue reading

July 3, 2023 · 65 Comments

No Greater Law, Best Interest and the Maya Kowalski Case

(And also, ITV’s Butterfly 2018). All of these productions examine parental consent  – or determination? An absolutely fascinating topic, particularly in light of US views on religion and how the … Continue reading

June 26, 2023 · 39 Comments

It feels like summer

… and the living is easy. My head is in an excellent spot. Anxiety down, Mike with practically no side effects from radiotherapy, sales are good, the dogs are great … Continue reading

June 1, 2023 · 37 Comments

Meanwhile at Chateau de Notre Maison, celebrations!

I apologise. I just cannot stop making fun of the Escape to the Chateau program and its spin-offs. The more of them we discover, the more we have to watch. … Continue reading

April 28, 2023 · 31 Comments

Oo-oo-oh WIS-TE-RI-A

Getting the house ready for summer is a ton of fun. I say it every year but it is true, the house looks better each year. Remember when I planted … Continue reading

April 15, 2023 · 34 Comments

I had a visitor from the past with evidence of my previous lives.

Imagine that! The first immediate family member I see since 1999 came to visit. We talked so much she was barely able to see the house. She had evidence at … Continue reading

April 5, 2023 · 12 Comments

When you see the term Gender Ideology, alarm bells should ring in your head!

Here we go again. Gender ideology. Gender. Ideology. Do you think you know what it means? It’s currently in vogue in the Americas. Bolsonaro put it back in style in … Continue reading

March 30, 2023 · 156 Comments

Pergolating Part Deux

Slowly but surely. This week we planted Silver Lace Vine on the uprights. I know, it’s one of those out of control plants, but considering the erratic weather we want … Continue reading

March 18, 2023 · 82 Comments

The Cost of Living Crisis Revisited

I know the situation is very different from the 2008 financial crisis but the effects are very similar. A year ago a cucumber at my local supermarket (Intermarche) was 1€, … Continue reading

February 26, 2023 · 117 Comments

Pergolating, Part I

Here we go, part I. It’s up but there’s still a ton to do. You can see a pair of the new iron chairs. They look super designer and light … Continue reading

February 21, 2023 · 20 Comments

Number 42, Before Us

Yesterday we had the great pleasure of being visited by a former resident of number 42. One who grew up here and loves the place as much as we do. … Continue reading

February 16, 2023 · 18 Comments

Hi Ren

Originally posted on Esme's Cloud:
It’s been too long, of course, but if it makes you all feel any better no-one has been getting much in the way of…

February 10, 2023 · 9 Comments

The Wonders of Absurdist Entertainment: Chateau DIY

Imagine this scenario: There are British people who want to live in a grand French country house, but they (a number on this program) can’t quite afford to do it. … Continue reading

January 19, 2023 · 30 Comments

Happy Holidays!

All is well, all is quiet — which is how we like it. Soon to be are pictures of the installed pergola. Mike is well. Psa tests are one per … Continue reading

December 20, 2022 · 41 Comments

The end of summer in Mazamet

And what a wonderful time we had. Discounting the heat, of course. That part was appalling. Having resisted air-conditioning all these years, we finally gave in and installed one in … Continue reading

October 5, 2022 · 36 Comments

A Very Mazamet Summer: Flowers, Food & Wine

And a good time was had by all, I believe. Our first guests of the year have come and gone. My brother and sister-in-law. I realised something fantastic happened to … Continue reading

July 5, 2022 · 109 Comments

Do you need an abortion? PLANCPILLS.ORG

Let me start by asking people, all of you out there, to pass this along to your readers and followers, friends and family. I know many people are disturbed by … Continue reading

June 27, 2022 · 31 Comments

Summer Girls, Guest Rooms & Kitchens

SUMMER GIRLS ARE COMING!!!!! We’re more than thrilled. We’ve had no visitors since the pandemic began and it seems we’ll be making up for it this year. Mike’s brother and … Continue reading

May 27, 2022 · 22 Comments

Christianity and the Strong Arm of the Law: Do the religious not trust themselves?

This was from the former Pink Agendist Blog posted in January of 2014, but happens to unfortunately be relevant yet again. “Christianity has had, since its inception, an obsession with … Continue reading

May 6, 2022 · 162 Comments

Some beautiful places in the Tarn

I’ve been in contact recently with a pair interested in moving to the region. After having looked at a few of the properties they’ll be visiting I was bombarded by … Continue reading

May 3, 2022 · 23 Comments

The Difficulties with Villa Ermo Pt. 2

The background problems were discussed in some detail here, but having had ample experience in design/furniture/art over the past 24 years, I wanted to talk about the things people don’t … Continue reading

April 27, 2022 · 35 Comments

A Short Post — regarding people’s nether regions

Just want to get this one out of the way because — well, because that’s what this blog is actually for. It’s here that I talk to myself (and to … Continue reading

April 3, 2022 · 58 Comments

The Complicated Case of Villa Ermo (Mazamet’s Grey Gardens)

No news yet on Villa Ermo near the Villa de Mazamet, and my hopes that someone would take it on are beginning to fade. To be honest, I’m not surprised. … Continue reading

March 29, 2022 · 29 Comments

Mid-March in Mazamet. Sold, sold, and please don’t sell that!

It seems we’ve arrived at the hot-cakes stage of the market. The Reynes house sold for asking price, approximately one million US$. I don’t know who bought it. The park … Continue reading

March 16, 2022 · 32 Comments

Another Mazaversary!!! Also, lunch and dogs

The Ukrainian branch of the family is in a secure location so let’s set aside for a moment all the terrible things happening in the world. As we celebrate another … Continue reading

March 9, 2022 · 38 Comments

The Ukrainian flag has gone up in Mazamet

Our mayor has put the Ukrainian flag on the town hall. What a horrendous time. On the French side of my family, almost every generation lost people to war. My … Continue reading

February 28, 2022 · 149 Comments

Tradução: Linguagem jurídica envolta em comportamento mafioso. Minha experiência com Caio Druso

Imagine esse cenário. Sua mãe, no Brasil, na Europa ou na América, recebe uma carta de um advogado no Irã. A carta é uma notificação extrajudicial. Sra. X, Estou a … Continue reading

February 20, 2022 · 25 Comments

This is how the mafia operates: Caio Druso

A Portuguese version of this post will follow shortly. Imagine the hilarity of receiving not one but an inbox filling succession of “extrajudicial” letters as attempts to — not only … Continue reading

February 19, 2022 · 36 Comments

February Auction Highlights, London & Madrid

Still time to bid! Each with caned seat and back with loose cushions upholstered in red and cream damask. Profoundly French. I’ve always loved sitting at dining tables where everyone … Continue reading

February 9, 2022 · 34 Comments

Winter in Mazamet: Visiting the Molinié Villa

It’s been cold! The lawn has been regularly covered in a white dust of ice. There have been storms and flooding in various parts of France. Luckily, we’re not in … Continue reading

February 2, 2022 · 15 Comments

Wishing you all A Life in Roses in 2022

Mike got me a few roses for a nice start to the New Year.

December 31, 2021 · 69 Comments

Happy Holidays!!! To Every Thing There is a Season, and a Time To Every Purpose

We’ve had a lovely bit of very welcomed sunshine lately to brighten up what’s been an emotional time. As we’ve completed our seventh year in France we also lost the … Continue reading

December 20, 2021 · 41 Comments

Gorgeous Stuff; Autumn in Mazamet; And just for fun: The Canadian High Court Decision

The weather has been fantastic. Mild sunny days and cool nights. It feels like compensation for a summer that was very volatile. A book by Sonia Servant via the Dept. … Continue reading

October 30, 2021 · 36 Comments

The Secret of Life: We all play the status game, but who are the real winners?

“Life is a game. To understand this is to understand why the human world can be so maddening, angry and irrational. The behaviour of racists, transphobes, conspiracy theorists, cult members, … Continue reading

October 14, 2021 · 50 Comments

September in Mazamet. A House of Substance

Thank goodness for September, the cool nights are back. This month and October are some of the best months in Mazamet. Lovely sunny days punctuated by cooling rains. Skies that … Continue reading

September 6, 2021 · 42 Comments

A Fascinating Perspective; Critical Race Theory in Action at The White Lotus

  “… Excellent performances (and performers) like Rothwell as Belinda are wasted as the Black and Hawaiian characters — the ones actually best suited to critique their white oppressors through the … Continue reading

August 24, 2021 · 17 Comments

2021, Summer in Mazamet — and art

… and what a strange summer it has been so far. Another year without Summer-Girls visiting. Had they come, we’d be listening to Thomas Dutronc’s album Frenchy and drinking champagne … Continue reading

August 12, 2021 · 24 Comments

Much Ado About Critical Race Theory

People seem to be incredibly preoccupied with this theory at the moment. It’s being discussed in much the same way as they used to talk about the Homosexual Agenda. I … Continue reading

June 24, 2021 · 503 Comments

All the Things One Doesn’t Say Out Loud. De mortuis nihil nisi bonum

“Her mother blackmailed her, her husband Giovanni Battista Meneghini stole from her, and shipping magnate Aristotle Onassis was violent and abandoned her for Jackie Kennedy… …In writing a new biography, … Continue reading

June 20, 2021 · 54 Comments

E La Nave Va – Liberty, Equality and Vaccination

Only two weeks to my second Pfizer Covid shot. I didn’t think I was going to get the first until after June 15th when vaccination opens to the general public … Continue reading

May 27, 2021 · 49 Comments

Brilliant Idea for Next Door + A Brussels Tapestry

And so it becomes clear. The house next door has been purchased to become a co-living residence for seniors. It’s a fantastic idea and an interesting option both for the … Continue reading

April 10, 2021 · 26 Comments

Camellia Season, Work and Many Versaries

First of all I’d like to know what the moratorium is in the post-Trump era before we can say offensive things again and not be confused with his supporters? I … Continue reading

March 27, 2021 · 84 Comments

A Random Rant or an Open Letter – or the 1st draft of a letter

Infuriating. Infuriating. Have I said infuriating? For the nth time in the past three years the French Douane (customs office) has sent us a request for supplementary information on a … Continue reading

January 30, 2021 · 41 Comments

Happy Holidays!

So here we are and what a year it has been. I don’t even have the energy to comment. Let’s hope 2021 brings some measure of normality back. Christmas Menu … Continue reading

December 23, 2020 · 45 Comments

Masterpiece, from Master Piece, Objet de Maîtrise, Meesterstuk

Excerpt from Walter Cahn, Masterpieces: Chapters on the History of an Idea, Princeton, 1979 “The exercise of a profession during the Middle Ages necessitated admission to a guild or corporation, … Continue reading

November 23, 2020 · 28 Comments

The Redemptive Power of Beautiful Things

A more light-hearted post since whenever one turns on the television all we hear are terrible things – so I give you some beautiful things: I found this great little … Continue reading

October 17, 2020 · 46 Comments

Masterpiece Art: Stephen Finer, Portraits that Capture

I highly recommend this virtual exhibition, which you can see from the comfort of your home. Not a bad option these days. The paintings are sublime.  STEPHEN FINER: PORTRAITS THAT … Continue reading

October 13, 2020 · 7 Comments

She’s Leaving Me!!!

  She’s decided she’s going to live in America. I won’t lie, I’m a little bit shaken. I thought that considering the virus and the turmoil in the world, she’d … Continue reading

August 28, 2020 · 31 Comments

Official Mourning Declared Tomorrow in Brazil’s 4th Largest State

Governor Rui Costa declared official mourning for the 18th of August to honour my grandfather’s death which happened this morning. Mayor ACM also released a statement. Not entirely sure how … Continue reading

August 17, 2020 · 29 Comments

Medical Fraud: Misleading Coronavirus Video Spreads Online

In a video posted Monday online, a group of people calling themselves “America’s Frontline Doctors” and wearing white medical coats spoke against the backdrop of the Supreme Court in Washington, … Continue reading

July 29, 2020 · 83 Comments

And now for not beautiful things, like Covid-19

Last week my mind was the scene of a landslide of memories and emotions. It’s taken me a while to collect my thoughts. My email began flooding on Wednesday. Messages … Continue reading

July 27, 2020 · 41 Comments

Beautiful Things: Roland Oudot and Mercier Freres

Roland Oudot and Mercier Frères. Two names that aren’t terribly well known although they should be. A few weeks ago I saw a painting by Oudot at auction and thought … Continue reading

July 24, 2020 · 18 Comments

The Threshold of Injury to Demand for Action Ratio as Based on Genetic Determinism/Identity

Consider this example: For the past few years a sector of the American population has been proposing the legal denial of service to customers based on the customer’s sexual orientation. … Continue reading

July 18, 2020 · 44 Comments

Preparing the house for Imaginary Summer Girls

It’s the one time a year when the house gets cleaned from top to bottom, hard to get to cobwebs removed, unused rooms opened; So even though Summer Girls won’t … Continue reading

July 11, 2020 · 33 Comments

The mood music for this post is Sabor a Mi, late 60’s.

And then one day, suddenly, it makes sense. It all makes sense. I’m reading Pete Walker’s Complex Trauma (CPTSD) book. It’s the text I hoped I would one day find. … Continue reading

July 5, 2020 · 31 Comments

Isolation has increased productivity.

I finally got around to restoring the George I st chest that we found in Castres. If you recall, it was in a dubious state (see below) – which meant … Continue reading

June 12, 2020 · 44 Comments

A Lady of a Certain Size – and results. Also, STEP AWAY FROM THE ART!!!

Where do I begin? Well, the Spanish tapestry I mentioned in the last post nearly doubled its 2018 sale price. That’s some serious appreciation in a year’s time! The walnut … Continue reading

June 5, 2020 · 45 Comments

(Often Overlooked) Modern Artistic Wonders of Weaving

via tapestry ||| sotheby’s This is up for auction again – not sure why, but usually when things come up for sale just a year or two after they were … Continue reading

May 19, 2020 · 20 Comments

An 18th Century Walnut Sofa, Circa 1730; And other thoughts including on people who see Jesus on toast

It’s a very conservative estimate, but there’s a chance someone will end up with an outstanding piece of furniture for a very reasonable price. I still find it baffling that … Continue reading

May 12, 2020 · 34 Comments

Things to do during confinement: EXTREME FLOOR WAXING!!!

First I (hand) scrubbed the floors to get rid of old wax buildup which caused dark patches (and there were also specks of accumulated dirt especially where walls meet floors.) … Continue reading

April 19, 2020 · 34 Comments

Phenomenal performance, writing, photography – everything.

I don’t think I remember what my mind was before the things that happened that ruined my mind. It’s particularly fascinating for me to see someone exposed in this way, … Continue reading

April 16, 2020 · 34 Comments

One can tell by my eyes that I’ve probably been crying forever

Firstly, thank you all so much for the kind comments. I just didn’t have it in me to respond. I went to the vegetable shop yesterday and despite my efforts … Continue reading

April 3, 2020 · 21 Comments

Shattered.

Late last night, as I was going to bed, Rudy started twitching. A strange affair, like electric shocks going through his body. This developed into ever bigger seizures/strokes. A while … Continue reading

March 30, 2020 · 31 Comments

Life on lock-down, including the Joys of Cook—-ware

The Boulevard de Lattre de Tassigny and Rue de Strasbourg are magnificently quiet. The weather has been lovely this week. Mike took the opportunity to help Rudy with some rehab … Continue reading

March 20, 2020 · 26 Comments

Self-Isolation, Louis XV Stools & Some Cooking

We’re following the French governments’s advice and in self isolation because Mike fits the risk group criteria. We already live in quasi-self-isolation, so the main difference is instead of food … Continue reading

March 13, 2020 · 54 Comments

Convalēscentia – Part I

For those of you wondering: All is well! Mike is back to normal – or at least as normal as one can be after health scares of this type. He … Continue reading

March 4, 2020 · 37 Comments

It’s a Beautiful Day in the Neighbourhood

Well, yesterday was, anyway. Today it’s cold. Thank you all for the good wishes. My apologies if I didn’t answer you personally, I was a bit distraught. I have excellent … Continue reading

December 26, 2019 · 51 Comments

Happy Holidays!!!

Wishing you all the very best! We’re hiding out at the moment because Mike’s had a health scare. I really don’t want to talk about it for now – until … Continue reading

December 19, 2019 · 23 Comments

The Mayan Conquest

Intense. There’s no better word to describe this first month. Maya’s life experience has created a very unique mindset. Humans have a tendency to personalise everything – and so, I … Continue reading

November 16, 2019 · 51 Comments

Maya, Day II

I’ve cut away most of her matted fur and she’s had a bath. She arrived Tuesday evening because things got delayed at the shelter. The night was peaceful but she … Continue reading

October 3, 2019 · 36 Comments

Life can be difficult

I usually make an effort not to talk about unpleasant things – but sometimes life just doesn’t cooperate with me. There have been two things this this year that have … Continue reading

September 27, 2019 · 59 Comments

Best value property in the region – by a mile!

Four floors of 200m2 each, 10 rooms, exquisite panelling, marble fireplaces, fabulous garden with ancient trees – and of course this happens to be the sister-property of number 42. The … Continue reading

September 19, 2019 · 45 Comments

Late Summer 2019 at Nº 42

Summer girls have come and gone – and their company was utterly wonderful, as always. This year they brought along with them a pair of glorious Victorian cut crystal claret … Continue reading

August 20, 2019 · 74 Comments

“Flower, whence came thy dazzling hue?”

August 9, 2019 · 60 Comments

Louis XVI Commodes, Including a Highly Important Marquetry Dresser by RVLC 

Firstly, have a look at this: “… The commode having three drawers, the first set in the frieze, mounted with panels of ormolu interlace and rosettes above the remaining two … Continue reading

July 19, 2019 · 10 Comments

Uncle-hood

We had a surprise visit – which coincided with the heat wave. We thought the temperatures (we’re just two hours away from the record breaking 45.9º!!!) might ruin the experience, … Continue reading

July 2, 2019 · 49 Comments

Like stepping into a Jane Austen novel: The Harveys and the Herrings

To the left the Harveys, to the right the Herrings (of Norwich/Norfolk), in this most unusual portrait painted in 1820 by Joseph Clover, when the two prominent families were united … Continue reading

June 18, 2019 · 19 Comments

Lights, Camera – Mazamet

Lights, lights, lights in the garden! Absolutely wonderful. There was one thing I missed terribly about Spain and that was the ambience at night. Particularly in the garden at Villa … Continue reading

June 12, 2019 · 17 Comments

André-Léon Vivrel, Sotheby’s Hong Kong

AGE OF ELEGANCE: EUROPEAN PAINTINGS, FURNITURE AND SCULPTURE HONG KONG André-Léon Vivrel (1886-1976), FRENCH STILL LIFE Source: Vivrel Still Life, Sotheby’s This is an artist I did not know, but … Continue reading

June 1, 2019 · 41 Comments

Showing, not telling. As summer approaches in Mazamet

May 23, 2019 · 41 Comments

To Gillie, With Love

“I hope you are already aware of the forthcoming celebration of Gillie’s life and art and the launch of the Lynne and Land Foundation we are setting up to help … Continue reading

May 11, 2019 · 11 Comments

Call this number and tell the woman I must see her chest without delay.

That’s the sort of unusual note Mike finds on his desk in the morning. And let me tell you, what a chest it turned out to be! Central or Northern … Continue reading

May 5, 2019 · 40 Comments

A Hanging, our Mazaversary and Various Other Versaries

The Hanging: It looks right. It was March 2015 when we arrived at number 42. Many corners have been turned since, but now it looks as if the big ones … Continue reading

March 29, 2019 · 41 Comments

Mazamet, March 7th, 2019

February in Mazamet has been like Spring. Lots of sun and beautifully mild temperatures hovering around 15 during the day, cooler nights. It’s been very enjoyable but of course something … Continue reading

March 7, 2019 · 51 Comments

Early February in Mazamet. A little bit of wonderful.

First things first, I’ve been doing the interiors of the cabinets in the scullery. They were plain and boring – completely unrefined. So I thought I’d add a bit of … Continue reading

February 1, 2019 · 32 Comments

As I Walk Through the Valley of the Shadows of Hungry Ghosts

Or is it goats? Worry not, this isn’t a depressing post! I’m actually feeling very well. But this is a haphazard post which basically goes nowhere, so be warned. I’ve been … Continue reading

January 29, 2019 · 44 Comments

Happy Holidays!

As usual, we couldn’t get the dogs all together and still for a Christmas card picture – so this year there are two. The boys were particularly disruptive, which meant … Continue reading

December 21, 2018 · 47 Comments

Did you know that when a parent dies you get a free churro?

A breathtaking piece of writing from a cartoon, no less. If you have Netflix, look up: Bojack Horseman series 05 episode 06, it’s delivered by Will Arnett. The first part … Continue reading

November 20, 2018 · 40 Comments

Chairs, China & Art – and detours

Remember how the dining room was nearly done? Oops. There’s been a detour. I wasn’t happy with the balance of the lighting as we sat at the table. The right … Continue reading

November 8, 2018 · 44 Comments

The World in Which a Dead Son Is Better Than a Gay Son

I’d rather have a dead son than a gay son. Let that phrase wash over you. Let it envelop you. Let it sink in. Taste its bitter sting. A dead … Continue reading

October 26, 2018 · 192 Comments

Mazamet, October 2nd, 2018

The weather has been sublime. Warm days, cool nights, stunning skies. I’ve been making an effort to order my thoughts. Sometimes my mind feels so full it’s like sitting on … Continue reading

October 2, 2018 · 45 Comments

Cooking this season – let’s call it vintage style: Cordon Bleu, Madhur Jaffrey & Edouard de Pomiane

The other day I found a complete set of the 1968 Cordon Bleu home course for sale online, and of course bought it immediately. It was designed by Rosemary Hume … Continue reading

September 10, 2018 · 44 Comments

The End is in Sight!

The fabric above is a 100% linen fabric called Water Iris, by Zoffany. Only £78 p/ metre. It’s what we’ve settled on for the dining room chairs. I’ve been working on … Continue reading

September 8, 2018 · 30 Comments

If the grass is greener on one’s own side – does one stop watering?

So confusing! I opened an upstairs window this week to this image. People here let their grass go brown in summer. I went looking around and it seems everyone does … Continue reading

August 30, 2018 · 37 Comments

Let’s talk about good stuff. Mazamet, August 22nd, 2018

The wallpaper is up and I’m thrilled. The effect is even better in person than in the pictures. The room is alive. The dark table will anchor the whole thing, give … Continue reading

August 22, 2018 · 47 Comments

So – Sarah Porter – What can I say?

It’s true that the day after you get bad news is a little bit easier. Just a little, though. Memories have been flashing in my mind all day yesterday and … Continue reading

August 15, 2018 · 23 Comments

LET THE FUN BE-GIN!!! Until it ends.

Summer girls have come and gone. We had a glorious time as we do every year. They went exploring this year in a way they hadn’t done before. They say … Continue reading

August 14, 2018 · 12 Comments

This map shows what white Europeans associate with race

“… Each country on the map is coloured according to the average score of test takers from that country. Redder countries show higher average bias, bluer countries show lower average … Continue reading

August 11, 2018 · 75 Comments

Denialism: what drives people to reject the truth by Keith Kahn-Harris

“In recent years, the term has been used to describe a number of fields of “scholarship”, whose scholars engage in audacious projects to hold back, against seemingly insurmountable odds, the … Continue reading

August 5, 2018 · 35 Comments

Mazamet: Being Gazumped & Hot August Real Estate

Okay, so we weren’t actually gazumped – I just like using that word. An apartment came up for sale in the building across the street (Residence du Haut Languedoc) and … Continue reading

August 2, 2018 · 78 Comments

Mostly pictures

Summer girls are here and out for the day to Albi – I was going to go with them but when I saw the temperature was going to be 35º … Continue reading

July 31, 2018 · 45 Comments

More dining-room-inations and some pergolating

The blue-grey is going up as I type. The blank space in it is for the Palmeraie (wall)paper after Carl Blechen. I’m in the last stages of the ebonising of … Continue reading

July 22, 2018 · 25 Comments

Of ridiculous things to say

Yes, Richard, it must be cultural. Either that or senility. Church bells are an absolute invasion of people’s right to reasonable peace and quiet. I make an effort not to be … Continue reading

July 18, 2018 · 43 Comments

Mazamet: Creating a new life in the South of France – Interview with Gareth Johnson for MainlyMale/GTV London

Journalist Gareth Johnson of GTV London and MainlyMale asked me a few questions about our move to Mazamet. The original source has been archived, so I’ve included a copy of … Continue reading

July 14, 2018 · 43 Comments

For Brexiters, truth is what you believe – even if it’s a lie | Opinion | The Guardian

“… It was shameless, a degradation of our public life. But sealed in the bubble of her ideology, protected by a right-wing press locked in the same bubble, she was … Continue reading

July 9, 2018 · 14 Comments

Religion as a Tool in Social Dominance Theory

“Social dominance theory was put forth by two researchers, Jim Sidanius and Felicia Pratto, in 1999. Specifically, Sidanius and Pratto attempted to explain how, and why, social structures seemed to … Continue reading

July 6, 2018 · 34 Comments

Dame Gillian Lynne 1926-2018. Once upon a time.

  Dame Gillian Lynne, who has died at the age of 92, quite simply changed the way we think of dance. Her husband, actor Peter Land, announced on Twitter the … Continue reading

July 3, 2018 · 15 Comments

​A marble bust of the Roman Emperor Commodus | Christie’s

  “… Aurelius Commodus Antoninus Augustus (161-192 AD), or Commodus as he was more commonly known, was the last emperor of the Nerva-Antonine dynasty, which ruled the Roman Empire for … Continue reading

June 30, 2018 · 89 Comments

(Almost) July at number 42

Mike got an umbrella because when summer girls are here we sit outside most days and his skin is prone to those lesions (caused by the sun) that have to … Continue reading

June 28, 2018 · 39 Comments

The Magnificent Hannah Gadsby Monologue

” … because I still have shame. You learn from the part of the story you focus on. I need to tell my story properly. Because the closet, for me, … Continue reading

June 24, 2018 · 44 Comments

Pot-pourri —– is a stupid title

Did you know pourri means rotten? The French term came about during the Napoleonic occupation of Spain. It began life as the name of a typical Burgos dish which mixed … Continue reading

June 19, 2018 · 39 Comments

Former inmates of Good Shepherd homes want compensation for forced labour – DutchNews.nl

“In the Netherlands at least 15,000 young girls and women were forced to work in the laundries and sewing rooms of the Catholic order of the Sisters of the Good … Continue reading

June 12, 2018 · 25 Comments

An Evening with Patrick Melrose or why the worse thing that ever happened to me was that I wasn’t an orphan.

Saturday evening in Mazamet. June 9th. The weather is mild. There’s a street party in the centre of town. From the garden we can hear music in the distance. For … Continue reading

June 10, 2018 · 71 Comments

June at number 42

Firstly, the garden. Above is what I’ve added to the garden in the past week. Today I’ve added 6 more astilbes (purpurkerze), 2 hostas (big daddy) and three lathyrus pink … Continue reading

June 6, 2018 · 44 Comments

In research this week: The Commode en Console

“… It’s French name, commode en console, indicates that it is, in fact, a console table designed to stand against a wall and a commode or chest of drawers. A … Continue reading

June 4, 2018 · 18 Comments

Yippee: a crucifixion, abortion, ducks and pretty things!!!

And it’s only Wednesday! – In case you missed the exceedingly popular last issue of Archaeological and Anthropological Sciences, there’s a fascinating article on the second case of crucifixion ever found. … Continue reading

May 30, 2018 · 52 Comments

Author Didier Eribon: ‘What was difficult was not being gay but being working-class’ | Books | The Guardian

“What was difficult was not being gay but being working-class,” he says. ‘People who say they are proud to be working-class are really saying they are proud to no longer … Continue reading

May 27, 2018 · 33 Comments

Christie’s: The Kenneth Neame Collection, Including Arts of India, English and European Furniture and Works of Art

“This June, discover the refined taste of Kenneth Neame, one of London’s most respected antique dealers. Ahead of his forthcoming relocation, Neame is offering a curated selection of pieces from … Continue reading

May 26, 2018 · 5 Comments

Number 42: Upstairs Landing Update

The bedrooms side of the landing is now painted. Scaffolding will be needed for the stairs side. The Baudson Wisteria mirror (from the charity shop) has a new glass and … Continue reading

May 14, 2018 · 40 Comments

The “Governor’s Residency” at Tel ‘Eton, The United Monarchy, and the Impact of the Old-House Effect on Large-Scale Archaeological Reconstructions

“… This has bearings on the date in which social complexity evolved in Judah, on the debate regarding the historicity of the kingdom of David and Solomon, and it also … Continue reading

May 7, 2018 · 16 Comments

The Elegant Atheist: Keeping away the Jehova’s Witnesses and the Mormons

I finally decided to get a sign having been woken up today by the doorbell and the consequent dog barking. I ran downstairs flustered, stopped at the inter-phone to say … Continue reading

May 2, 2018 · 94 Comments

Dining room-inations

So we were talking the other day about what to (finally) do about the dining room and Mike said it would be wonderful if we could make it feel like … Continue reading

April 30, 2018 · 35 Comments

Princess Margaret preferred a vase – 

The Queen’s sister was so miffed at the tiny glasses on Concorde that she used a vase for her G&T, according to a recent report. But what is the best … Continue reading

April 26, 2018 · 26 Comments

Amazing deal: Maison Bourgeoise in Mazamet for 85 000€

Source: Vente maison / villa 12 pièce(s) à Secteur de Mazamet : 245 m² avec 7 chambres à 85 000 euros – Lopez immobilier Apparently this is in a fantastic location … Continue reading

April 17, 2018 · 17 Comments

Les Floriales 2018

This year’s Floriales (open air garden fair) is from the 27th to the 29th at the usual spot, the Jardin des Promenades. It’s definitely worth a visit, there’s a lot … Continue reading

April 16, 2018 · 23 Comments

A student pod – experimenting with space

This was a challenge. So much so that I’d been putting it off for months. I was so uninspired I was leaning towards just leaving the two studios in building … Continue reading

April 14, 2018 · 38 Comments

That was quick + The visit of flexitarian millenials.

– That took five minutes to sell, which is a rather good sign for the strengthening market of the area. Asking was 470 EU which is 580 US$ (at today’s … Continue reading

April 12, 2018 · 15 Comments

The Léon Daures Archives

The descendants of architect Léon Daures have donated all of his files/notes/drawings to the government of the Tarn. You might not recognise his name but if you’ve been to Albi … Continue reading

April 5, 2018 · 24 Comments

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March 27, 2018 · 26 Comments

Hommage à la famille Hessel : mécènes et modèles | Christie’s

“The Hommage à la famille Hessel : Mécènes et Modèles auction, to be held on 23 March, offers one of the rarest art collections of the 20th century, including works by French … Continue reading

March 20, 2018 · 12 Comments

Chris Hayes: What ‘Law and Order’ Means to Trump – The New York Times

“… In this view, crime is not defined by a specific offense. Crime is defined by who commits it. If a young black man grabs a white woman by the … Continue reading

March 18, 2018 · 28 Comments

The Dilemma(s)

I spent a good long while last night examining the console table. The damage goes far beyond what I initially presumed. There’s over-painting throughout. And it’s not just the gold … Continue reading

March 17, 2018 · 43 Comments

A Horrendous Day

I had planned on posting wonderful pictures of a stunning parcel gilt lacca povera console table from the first half of the 18th century this afternoon – but that will … Continue reading

March 15, 2018 · 68 Comments

Fabulous news! Dame Gillian Lynne Theatre

‘Andrew Lloyd Webber has today announced that the New London Theatre is to be renamed in honour of the trailblazing choreographer Dame Gillian Lynne. The Theatre will be formally recognised … Continue reading

March 14, 2018 · 20 Comments

Older Than Springtime

The weather was lovely over the weekend and again today. I’ve taken advantage of that to start pruning the wisteria. Nightmare job. Terribly frightening to be that high up a … Continue reading

March 13, 2018 · 27 Comments

The Mezzaro & Other Textiles (an update)

The person you see in the video is J.C. Bordes. He’s a local artisan with shops here in Mazamet, in Labastide Rouairoux and in Albi – and he makes woodblock … Continue reading

March 8, 2018 · 20 Comments

Countdown + the newest family member

  It’s countdown to Holy Week when the family arrives. People from Holland, (the) Ukraine and Britain. One of them is heavily pregnant with this child above! They don’t want … Continue reading

March 7, 2018 · 34 Comments